Wellness Works: this month is EMPATHY

Posted January 6, 2022

Hello parents, guardians and families!

This month we are exploring the theme of EMPATHY with students as a part of their mental
health skill building. Empathy is about being able to consider what someone else may be going
through and imagining how they might be feeling or thinking. It is about walking in another
person’s shoes – about listening to another perspective non-judgmentally. It’s about voicing
our understanding of their emotions and validating them. It’s about recognizing the humanity
of others and challenging ourselves to be present. Empathy is often the first step towards
compassionate action and helping others.

Empathy is important because with empathy we:

  • Are more likely to treat people the way they wish you would treat them
  • Are better able to understand the needs of people around you
  • Are able to more clearly understand the perception you create in others with your
    words and actions
  • Are able to better understand other people’s needs

Here are some activities you can do at home to reflect and build on EMPATHY:

  • Help younger children understand how to recognize emotions so they are better able to
    understand how others may be feeling. You can draw “feeling faces” or take pictures of
    family members with different feeling faces. Or take turns role-playing different
    emotions (what would you look like if someone knocked down your Lego? Found a
    puppy? Etc.)
  • You can take turns coming up with situations or scenarios and have each family member
    share how that would make them feel. It’s important for all of us to remember that how
    we may feel is not always how other’s feel
  • Encourage your child/ren to consider how other’s may experience certain situations. For
    instance, if they came home excited about a presentation, they really felt good about –
    celebrate with them and then ask them to consider how the student who didn’t present
    so well may be feeling. Or how the “new” student in the class may feel? Help your child
    understand that people have specific and unique identities, and these identities mean
    that different things are available to them, they have different experiences in the world,
    different interests, and different struggles.
  • Help your child understand that different people have different things available to them,
    different experiences in the world, different interests and different struggles.
  • If you are reading to your child, stop and ask how different characters may be feeling in
    the story. How do the character’s different behaviours and choices tell us information
    about how they may be feeling?
  • Designate a wall to share ideas/thoughts/pictures about empathy as a family and reflect
    on it together.

Jenny Marino, Mental Health and Addictions Lead, in collaboration with the Wellness Works
Team at UGDSB.

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