Realistic Optimism – Wellness Works @ UGDSB

Posted February 2, 2022

Brought to you by the Wellness Works Team!
This month at UGDSB our Wellness Work’s theme is Realistic Optimism. What is Realistic
Realistic optimism is:
■ Believing that you will succeed with the right inputs like hard work and careful
■ The tendency to look at the favourable side of events
■ Expecting a positive outcome while preparing for obstacles and seeing ways to work
around them
■ A relatively stable expectation that good things will happen instead of bad
■ A belief in the ability to learn and grow
(image from article “Realistic Optimism” by Chris Loper)
Realistic optimism is not about always seeing the positive. It is about recognizing that obstacles
exist, focusing on what we can control, and looking for opportunities to problem solve even
during times of struggle. Realistic optimism requires the cognitive flexibility skills explored in

Here are some ways you can explore realistic optimism this month:
Self Talk: What we say to ourselves can shift our perspective. Ask kids to listen to that little
voice in their heads and notice what it is saying. Identifying what they are saying to themselves
is the first step. Next, prompt them to create new statements that are framed in a more positive
tone. “I’m going to fail that test tomorrow” could shift to “I am going to do the best I can on that
test tomorrow”.
Look for the Lesson: When something doesn’t go as planned, it can be easy to resort to
blame. Often, that blame is turned on ourselves. Instead, look for the lesson. Intentional
reflection can help highlight the possibility for personal growth inside of a challenging situation.
What has this situation taught you? What have you learned? This is a great skill that adults can
also model for their children.
SMART Goal Setting: Sometimes we set goals that are unrealistic or too vague, which leads to
feeling failure when we don’t accomplish them. Setting goals that are Specific, Measurable,
Attainable, Realistic, and Timely can help us celebrate small wins along the way, especially
when connected to action tasks. Imagining what is possible and connecting it to the hard work
needed to make it happen is realistic optimism in action!

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